The aim of this post is to, make notes of the book as i read it. This will help me going back to this book, as i want to refer to it in future. I want to heal my mind of anxiety and stress and this worrier syndrome, that has gradually crept into my belief system. My current belief system is:
1. If i worry, things will be okay. If i am happy and stress free, that means, i am not worrying enough. And it will lead to disatrous effect like, death of Cutu.
2. I am not doing enough for my bAby!
3. If i go out of house, she will catch a bug!
4. My life will never be stress free and happy again.
5. My home lacks a stress free feel.
6. I feel always like the sky is going to fall!
And so on.
I want to have a belief system like this:
1. I am alert of my surrounding. By being relaxed, i will be in a better chance to respond to any emergency.
2. I am doing all i can and should for her good. I must not compare to anyone on the net, someone i have never seen and start behaving like crazy!
3. If i go out, she will get fresh air and her health will mprove! So will mine!
4. My life will be stress free if i let it be stress free. There are many happy things waiting for me to happen.
5. My home will be a stress free, relaxibg retreat soon.
6. I always feel like, something good is going to happen. A good news is in its way!!! (Wow!)
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Placebo effect:
Why placebos work- its not the placebo, but the positive belief and the nurturing environment that makes a placebo work! Positive belief creates endorphins thAt heal disease.
The stress - relaxation cycle:
If positive thought can heal, can negative thought kill people! :
Yes. Chinese americans brn in the chinese year of ill fate, and who believe in that, die 5 years early for no apparant reason.
Quote!"never affirm or repeat about your health what you do not wish to be true"
You are not a victim of your genes! :
You cant change your dna, but you may be able to utilize the power of your mind to alter how your dna expresses otself! Telling your child that "diabetes runs in the family" is not good at all. Indirectly, it programs the childs mind to expect diabetes when they grow up! The author, dr rankin got blood pressure because her mom use to warn her against it as a kid. Inspite of no family background, she got it!
Body As a petri dish:
Our body is like the petri dish in which the genes are grown! Who controls the medium of the petri dish? The mind, the mind and its thoughts make the medium conducive to grow the genes. Or make it disease prone. Hence, choose what you think! And indeed, happy people are couragous people!
Your subconcious mind:
Negative beliefs of parents get programmed into our subconcious minds. Make sure what you speak to you child is positive, because it can become her destiny!! Thingslike 'you are weak....or you are going to end up fat' will be etchedin her mind and make up her subconsious mind. People operate from their subconcious mind 95% of the time..
Be mindful of how you program children:
As children most of us learnt, when we get sick, we have to go to doctors. However, my parents taught me my body is strong!